The primary insight from this exercise is that I did not select a physical object to represent the African-American identity of my family. The African-American identity is very important to who I am and who my family is. However, I am discovering that social identities and culture are not so much about things, but more so about a way of being, relating, and validating. Lastly, I think the underlying reasons for why I chose my three objects are probably more similar to others, than dissimilar.
Monday, November 7, 2011
Joy's Family Culture
My family and I are headed to another country, but I’m not sure where we’re going. They said I could bring three things, so I will bring our family Bible, a photo album, and the UNO game. The Bible describes the values that guide my family; the photo album includes pictures of cousins, grandparents, and friends who we must remember; and the UNO game brings my family into one room to play, laugh, and enjoy each other’s company. My family and I have arrived at this new country, but they told me I can only bring one item, not three. I choose the family Bible. The Bible is foundational to who the Mason family is. The Bible talks about love, contentment, humility, and forgiveness. Even if we didn’t have the UNO game to pull us together or the photo album to remember the faces of family, the Bible would help us stay close and be content. The Bible would also give us guidance for adjusting to our new home.
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Joy, My family also have family night and UNO is our favorite game. Everyone would be excited on Wednesday night for the evening events. This game has brought my family together on many occasions.
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ReplyDeleteI love how you selected UNO, my family tried family game night for awhile but it did not really stick. When I have a family of my own I think I am really going to try and make family game night a tradition.
But I was also like you and do not define myself or my culture by items but by how I am and how I act.
Joy, I love your first choice of the family culture connection. The Bible is also my first choice. I can appreciate chosing the game. Family laughs and harmless competitions help us stay connected. Thanks for your post.
ReplyDeleteI like your choices, I thought the Uno game was a great idea! Great way to bring family together and enjoy the times together!
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